Beautiful scenery and beautiful views etc. will have their appeal at many localities you visit and on journeys along the way, and if you are lucky you will also get to see some of our unique wildlife, such as the local equivalent of what I thought were King Parrots at Westmar, and magnificent trees along the road. 
However, it’s the people at any place that are most likely to be the ‘icing on the cake’ of any visit and when you have friends and relatives to visit they trump all the above.

- The sort of place you can have good conversations.

For example, the lady at the Dalby Visitor Information gave me a personal recommendation to see Margaret Rowe masseuse extra-ordinaire at Dalby. She not only revived my legs and gave some simple ‘do it yourself’ instructions to help the body but also talked about her positive reaction to the book “The Brain That Changes Itself”, a fantastic read – I have given several copies away to friends. She also talked sense on a whole heap of other things. If you are in Dalby and you feel the need for a good massage and/or a good conversation, make an appointment to see Margaret Rowe on 07 4662 5673
An elderly gentleman at a Dalby tyre place, I think he was a customer, was immediately on my side to defend my trike and my right to ride the trike to anybody who didn’t agree with me. He started muttering under his breath about anybody daring to have a counter view. He thought I had every right to do what I was doing and wished me well on my ride.
Customer Service
Good customer service essentially amounts to a positive and memorable people experience such as I had with the ladies in the office at the Jacaranda Country Motel in St George. They engaged in ‘to the point’ conversation with genuine questions and comments. I later found out that they were the outgoing and incoming leaseholders of the motel in transition.
The New Zealand shearers at Hebel wanted to know how I coped with other vehicles on the road. I explained that drivers had been fantastic in Queensland, giving me a wide berth and the occasional toot etc. and their attitude towards me seemed to be very positive. I then mentioned that on an earlier ride a couple of weeks back on the Newell Highway a can had been tossed at me from a passing vehicle, it was empty (the can and possibly the can thrower’s head) and missed me – about the only real negative experience I recall. One of the shearers then suggested what he might do to somebody like that if he had been a witness – my interpretation of what he actually said.
The Black Queen
My reason for being in Lightning Ridge is to see Roger and Gale Collins who own and run the Black Queen, a significant tourist attraction in this very interesting town and they don’t sell opals. A very innovative couple who have created/are creating (because their innovative ideas being incorporated into their business just don’t stop) a fabulous tourism attraction/facility in Lightning Ridge.



If, for any reason you are near Lightning Ridge on your way through northern NSW, stay a night. If you do stay in Lightning Ridge between March and October, make sure you take in a performance at the Black Queen.
Cobar & Hillston
I am also looking forward to catching up with my old mate John Martin, promoter of the Kidman Way extra-ordinaire, at Cobar; And the people celebrating 21 years of the Hillston Community Centre that I was involved in when working for the Carrathool Shire Council, when I get to Hillston on 28 May. With any luck I’ll see some of the old Councillors and staff from Carrathool Shire Council there too.
The primary feature of positive interactions with the people referred to above and others I have met is that they provide contexts to our communications. That can also happen with people I meet for the first time.
Conclusion
I suppose these first time interactions almost always entail ignoring or with-holding your own prejudices (pre-judgement), trusting that other people do the same and having the involvement of genuine intellectual curiosity. The latter also entails having the capacity to change your mind about ideas and being open to new ideas. George Bernard Shaw is apparently quoted as saying “Progress requires change and people who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.”